The Secret Of The Shmata

Sometimes I forget how many people don’t have a clue what I am saying when I pepper my speech with Yiddish phrases.

That came out after I made a presentation and someone said if I use the common vernacular I will get more buy in for my ideas.

I asked him if he could help me out and tell me what words I had used and he said “mishegoss, shmata and meshugeh.”

If those were the only three words he heard out of 15 minutes I might need to start a new career as a cure for insomnia or the voice for white noise.

I made a point to confirm whether my fear was correct and learned he had heard everything but was focused on trying to understand what the three words meant.

Mishegoss and meshugeh were a total loss for him but he thought he knew shmata.

“What is the secret of the shmata? It is some kind of food you eat right?”

I laughed and told him it wasn’t something he was likely to be interested in consuming unless he was trapped under something heavy and had no food.

Even then I suspect it wouldn’t occur to him to actually try forcing that down the old gullet.

Strange Dreams

My dreams have been particularly wild and vivid though I haven’t remembered too many specific details.

The most frequent occurrence is waking up uncertain of where I am and wondering if I have been traveling.

Though I do remember one in which I was in my old apartment so as to avoid being exposed to Covid.

I try not to buy trouble or give any extra weight to things like that without having more to go on.

Call it a balancing act between going with my gut and evaluating actions and events after they actually happen.

Most of the time it works pretty well, but there are moments where I have to decide if the siren going off inside my head is intuition or because I bumped into a cabinet.

It got me thinking about a bunch of things and I thought about the quote below and whether my daughter would appreciate it.

Because as she prepares to head to college I have tried to give her a few more nuggets of wisdom.

She has a plan for her future and that is awesome but I want her to recognize that if she goes a little further down the current path and doesn’t like it she can always change.

No need to paint yourself into a corner if you don’t have to any more than the need to not take a position because you fear being locked into one thing.

There is a middle ground to be had, if you have the courage to take it.

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By Joshua Wilner

Hi, I am Josh Wilner and I am happy that you have decided to visit my corner of cyberspace. I am a writer/marketer/friend and family man. My professional background includes more than twenty years in working with businesses to help them do a better job of connecting with their existing and prospective customers. More specifically I have worked with companies of all sizes from the Fortune 500 to the new start up to help them build, develop and grow their social media and marketing plans. I love spending time with my family and friends. I enjoy music, reading, writing, playing sports and laughing.

2 comments

  1. Barrett Rossie @barrettrossie – Spokane, Washington USA – Marketing manager that specializes in developing strategic messages that set brands apart, and bring their competitive position, benefits and brand personality to life. Visit me at http://barrettrossie.com
    Barrett Rossie says:

    Am I a schmuck for enjoying your shtick? Ah, I know bupkes about Yiddish.

    1. TheJackB – Someone complained that this page doesn’t tell you what to expect to find here in this blog so I aim to rectify this with the next line. I am a father who writes about life, parenting, business, politics and fiction. I don’t use an editorial calendar because I don’t map out what I am going to write that far in advance. The primary focus will be on things that relate to children and parenting. But the nifty thing about that is that encompasses a wide range of things. Sometimes I work with companies on their PR/Marketing efforts. If they provide products or services I will disclose it. Here is an incomplete list of companies that I am currently or have recently worked with: Nintendo, Philips Norelco, Subway, Frigidaire and Mattel. Want to know more about me, keep reading. If I wanted to provide a professional description it would looks similar to this: Jack has a Bachelor of Arts degree in journalism from California State University Northridge. He has been writing for print and web publications for more than twenty years, covering a wide range of topics including: business, technology, parenting, politics, education, sports and religion. That is far too serious so I prefer to use something like: The Jack B. is a writer and author of 39 unpublished books and three screenplays. A former athlete and would be superhero he still fights for truth, justice and the American Way. Though he may look like a grown man, don’t fool yourself he is still a boy at heart. When he is not engaged in Walter Mitty like fantasies he is a husband, father and friend and blogs at TheJackB. Hmm…obviously I have since moved from Random Thoughts over to this place, but that is ok. This page is a work in progress which is a good description for me. I’ll probably tweak this on a regular basis so feel free to keep checking back in because you never know what might show up. I am a prolific writer and update frequently so don’t forget to scroll down the page to see what nugget of wisdom you just might have missed. Here is a short selection of posts to get you started. A Father Describes Parenting A Father’s Burden How Sister’s Helped to Train A Father of “Daddy’s Girl” Inside the Blogger’s Studio- A Dream, Er Nightmare The GermoPhobe What I Dream About I am In Love Becoming a Dad Dad’s Most Important Job A Decade of Dad Grandpa Donuts Why Your Post Sucks and Everyone Hates Your Blog A Letter To My Children- Things That Matter A Letter To My Children-2011 Dad Balances Fear Versus Reality Q&A With Daddy Blogger JackB Save The Last Dance For Me- 75 Years of Marriage An Uncertain Certainty Four Generations & A Wedding The Best Thing My Father Ever Said To Me 1 Foolproof Way To Become a Better Writer The Story Of A House- The Final Days He Died A Hero Twenty-Five Links That Will Make You A Better Writer/Blogger Thanks for coming by, I hope you like it. If you want to reach me use the contact form or try talk-to-jacknow-at-gmail-dotcom You can also find more information by clicking About Me and reading my profile there. Also, I encourage you to sign up for my newsletter using the form on the top right hand side of the page.
      Joshua Wilner says:

      I am impressed. You MOT or have just had lots of exposure to us. 😉

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