The Secret Worlds We Live In

I tried to set up Facebook Instant Articles here but I ran into some technical difficulties and after I failed to get it working three times I set it aside.

Doesn’t mean I won’t go back and try again or that I have given up because I will and I haven’t.

But there is a time and place for everything and Facebook Instant Articles hasn’t been the priority I need to focus upon.

Got way too much happening that needs my attention first and since my day is long and sleep is short I make my choices.

At the moment it works well for me but when it doesn’t I’ll choose to make changes again. That is the way of things and those who know me well understand once I make the choice it is made.

The Secret Worlds We Live In

Been thinking about the choices we make and the ways we justify those decisions. Some are based upon logic and some aren’t.

Some of forget that we aren’t trees and mistake our feet for roots never bothering to look down and see they aren’t really buried in the ground.

Lost in thought about what we think we can do and who we think we are we place false limits upon ourselves and live in our own secret worlds.

Sometimes people ask for explanations about what some things mean and why they are done but I ignore most of those questions.

When they are posed by people who ask questions they don’t really want answers to there is no point in responding.

They forget you shouldn’t ask someone “what is new” or “how are you” unless you really want to know the answer.

That is not meant to be sarcastic, snarky or mean.

It is not whining or crying either, it is just a suggestion that it is ok not to engage with people you don’t really want to engage with.

A smile and a warm “hello” work quite well too and help to promote a friendly and congenial atmosphere.

About Writing

Not every post is designed to tell a story in a chronological order that contains a beginning, middle and an ending.

Some function as exercise, no different from running or lifting weights but the muscle you focus on is not your bicep,

So you write to clear your head and keep your pencil sharp.


I love that quote by Frost.

It has meaning for me and it makes me think and remember.

Today it made me think about For Emily, Whenever I May Find Her.

It made me wonder about the background behind the song and what Simon & Garfunkel were thinking.

In the digital age it would be easy for me to look it up and find out more but sometimes I prefer to let those things be because it is more fun for me to imagine what the story is.

I like thinking and using my imagination.

Sometimes I worry about whether we ask our children to do enough of that.

Digital Dilemmas

I am not old, but I am old enough to remember when Dick Tracy had an amazing watch and we didn’t have a million superhero movies because technology wasn’t good enough to make us believe they could do all we see them do on the screen.

So I look at what we have access to today and ask if that inspires more thought, more dreaming and more creativity or less.

Do we push our kids to think hard about the challenges of our times or do we tell them to just Google the answer.

Maybe it is a little bit of column A and B.

But if I had my druthers there would be more emphasis on teaching them critical reasoning and logical thought.

Give them a foundation to work with, teach them how to approach and handle challenges without the assistance of technology and with it.

Sometimes the GPS on the phone won’t work or the battery will die so they need to know how to read a standard map.

Tools and resources are great, but their utility is always contingent upon the skill of the user, but that is a probably fodder for a different post than this one.

Got to run now, there is magic all around and I don’t want to miss it.

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By Joshua Wilner

Hi, I am Josh Wilner and I am happy that you have decided to visit my corner of cyberspace. I am a writer/marketer/friend and family man. My professional background includes more than twenty years in working with businesses to help them do a better job of connecting with their existing and prospective customers. More specifically I have worked with companies of all sizes from the Fortune 500 to the new start up to help them build, develop and grow their social media and marketing plans. I love spending time with my family and friends. I enjoy music, reading, writing, playing sports and laughing.

4 comments

  1. Oh man, don’t get me started on Facebook Instant. Five times I’ve had the message “There’s something wrong with your formatting or some other crap”.
    FIVE TIMES!

    So, yeah, Facebook can go take a running jump, I have better things to do with my time.

    I was thinking about writing the other day, and how there are so many goddamned “rules” around it, all of which make sense, but all of which are equally non-important in the grand scheme of things.

    Life isn’t linear. Why should anything else be? Oh, yeah – because people need something to complain about. Meh.

    1. TheJackB – Someone complained that this page doesn’t tell you what to expect to find here in this blog so I aim to rectify this with the next line. I am a father who writes about life, parenting, business, politics and fiction. I don’t use an editorial calendar because I don’t map out what I am going to write that far in advance. The primary focus will be on things that relate to children and parenting. But the nifty thing about that is that encompasses a wide range of things. Sometimes I work with companies on their PR/Marketing efforts. If they provide products or services I will disclose it. Here is an incomplete list of companies that I am currently or have recently worked with: Nintendo, Philips Norelco, Subway, Frigidaire and Mattel. Want to know more about me, keep reading. If I wanted to provide a professional description it would looks similar to this: Jack has a Bachelor of Arts degree in journalism from California State University Northridge. He has been writing for print and web publications for more than twenty years, covering a wide range of topics including: business, technology, parenting, politics, education, sports and religion. That is far too serious so I prefer to use something like: The Jack B. is a writer and author of 39 unpublished books and three screenplays. A former athlete and would be superhero he still fights for truth, justice and the American Way. Though he may look like a grown man, don’t fool yourself he is still a boy at heart. When he is not engaged in Walter Mitty like fantasies he is a husband, father and friend and blogs at TheJackB. Hmm…obviously I have since moved from Random Thoughts over to this place, but that is ok. This page is a work in progress which is a good description for me. I’ll probably tweak this on a regular basis so feel free to keep checking back in because you never know what might show up. I am a prolific writer and update frequently so don’t forget to scroll down the page to see what nugget of wisdom you just might have missed. Here is a short selection of posts to get you started. A Father Describes Parenting A Father’s Burden How Sister’s Helped to Train A Father of “Daddy’s Girl” Inside the Blogger’s Studio- A Dream, Er Nightmare The GermoPhobe What I Dream About I am In Love Becoming a Dad Dad’s Most Important Job A Decade of Dad Grandpa Donuts Why Your Post Sucks and Everyone Hates Your Blog A Letter To My Children- Things That Matter A Letter To My Children-2011 Dad Balances Fear Versus Reality Q&A With Daddy Blogger JackB Save The Last Dance For Me- 75 Years of Marriage An Uncertain Certainty Four Generations & A Wedding The Best Thing My Father Ever Said To Me 1 Foolproof Way To Become a Better Writer The Story Of A House- The Final Days He Died A Hero Twenty-Five Links That Will Make You A Better Writer/Blogger Thanks for coming by, I hope you like it. If you want to reach me use the contact form or try talk-to-jacknow-at-gmail-dotcom You can also find more information by clicking About Me and reading my profile there. Also, I encourage you to sign up for my newsletter using the form on the top right hand side of the page.
      Joshua Wilner says:

      Facebook is ridiculous, cant figure out why they made this the way they did. Nuts to them.

      And yeah, life isn’t linear by any means. I am done with so many of the rules.

      1. The irony being, they want more people to stay within their ecosystem, but they’re only really enabling that for businesses and agencies that can afford to pay developers to work this stuff out for them.

        Meh. I’ll stick with responsive content on my own site, thanks.

        1. TheJackB – Someone complained that this page doesn’t tell you what to expect to find here in this blog so I aim to rectify this with the next line. I am a father who writes about life, parenting, business, politics and fiction. I don’t use an editorial calendar because I don’t map out what I am going to write that far in advance. The primary focus will be on things that relate to children and parenting. But the nifty thing about that is that encompasses a wide range of things. Sometimes I work with companies on their PR/Marketing efforts. If they provide products or services I will disclose it. Here is an incomplete list of companies that I am currently or have recently worked with: Nintendo, Philips Norelco, Subway, Frigidaire and Mattel. Want to know more about me, keep reading. If I wanted to provide a professional description it would looks similar to this: Jack has a Bachelor of Arts degree in journalism from California State University Northridge. He has been writing for print and web publications for more than twenty years, covering a wide range of topics including: business, technology, parenting, politics, education, sports and religion. That is far too serious so I prefer to use something like: The Jack B. is a writer and author of 39 unpublished books and three screenplays. A former athlete and would be superhero he still fights for truth, justice and the American Way. Though he may look like a grown man, don’t fool yourself he is still a boy at heart. When he is not engaged in Walter Mitty like fantasies he is a husband, father and friend and blogs at TheJackB. Hmm…obviously I have since moved from Random Thoughts over to this place, but that is ok. This page is a work in progress which is a good description for me. I’ll probably tweak this on a regular basis so feel free to keep checking back in because you never know what might show up. I am a prolific writer and update frequently so don’t forget to scroll down the page to see what nugget of wisdom you just might have missed. Here is a short selection of posts to get you started. A Father Describes Parenting A Father’s Burden How Sister’s Helped to Train A Father of “Daddy’s Girl” Inside the Blogger’s Studio- A Dream, Er Nightmare The GermoPhobe What I Dream About I am In Love Becoming a Dad Dad’s Most Important Job A Decade of Dad Grandpa Donuts Why Your Post Sucks and Everyone Hates Your Blog A Letter To My Children- Things That Matter A Letter To My Children-2011 Dad Balances Fear Versus Reality Q&A With Daddy Blogger JackB Save The Last Dance For Me- 75 Years of Marriage An Uncertain Certainty Four Generations & A Wedding The Best Thing My Father Ever Said To Me 1 Foolproof Way To Become a Better Writer The Story Of A House- The Final Days He Died A Hero Twenty-Five Links That Will Make You A Better Writer/Blogger Thanks for coming by, I hope you like it. If you want to reach me use the contact form or try talk-to-jacknow-at-gmail-dotcom You can also find more information by clicking About Me and reading my profile there. Also, I encourage you to sign up for my newsletter using the form on the top right hand side of the page.
          Joshua Wilner says:

          Yep. I guess they don’t see us adding dollars to their pockets.

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