What Is Your Story?

I have been thinking about Cathryn Sloane and her post about Why Every Social Media Manager Should Be Under 25. If you are wondering why I am writing about this almost a month later the reason is that I didn’t want to be lost in the noise that surrounded her initial salvo.

Mind you there are more than a few good posts that are worth reading about the topic and her letter.

Her article was foolish, short sighted and misguided- but I might have said or written the same thing at her age.

In fact I cannot confirm or deny telling a supervisor that they were not allowed to use words they couldn’t spell or define when speaking with me. I might have even have made them so angry they lost the ability to speak and had to leave the room.

Fortunately my tale of what might or might not have happened wasn’t recorded or done in front of millions of people. There is a reason I tell my kids not to upload any movies they make now because what is funny when you are almost 12 might not stay that way for long.

My grandfather always said you can’t screw an old head on young shoulder and he was right.

What She Got Right

She wasn’t completely off base on everything. Cathryn nailed one crucial area and it is worth sharing with you.

“The specificity of the ways in which the method should be used is usually beyond them, however. The typically tired commercial statements or aggressively slang-imitating phrases companies tend to use on their sites do not match the witty, honest, energetic atmosphere these social media outlets offer.”

In simple English it means that brands/companies are doing a poor job with their messaging. We are inundated with content that makes my head hurt. It is not because it is filled with spelling and grammatical errors but because there is abundance of jargon and gibberish that creates chaos and confusion.

Occasionally I’ll read an ad and wonder if it would be less painful to shove a butter knife in my ear than to try and understand what I just read.

It reminds me of a bit that the comedian Lewis Black performs about things that are dangerous to think about. That is the one that starts out with the line,  “if it wasn’t for my horse, I wouldn’t have spent that year in college.

The reason it is funny is because it is based in truth.  It doesn’t have to be like that. There is an easy and simple solution.

The Power of Simplicity

When it comes to business the power of simplicity works something like this:

  1. Identify Problem.
  2. Provide Solution.
  3. Show How You Provide Solution.
  4. Ask for Order.

If you want to boil it down further all we are doing is listening to people tell us about a problem they have and then responding with a short story about how we have the solution to their problem.

Gee Mrs. Hackleshmackle I understand you are late to work because you have to walk to your office. I have a car that is safe, reliable, economical and affordable. Sign here and press firmly, the third copy is yours.”

It is really that simple. Listen, tell your story, answer questions and ask for their business.

The next time you and your team sit down to talk about strategy and to work out what sort of content you need try starting the process by asking and answering What is Your Story?

Use the Power of Simplicity to help drive your business. It works because it is simple and can’t we all use a bit more of that.

What do you think?

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By Joshua Wilner

Hi, I am Josh Wilner and I am happy that you have decided to visit my corner of cyberspace. I am a writer/marketer/friend and family man. My professional background includes more than twenty years in working with businesses to help them do a better job of connecting with their existing and prospective customers. More specifically I have worked with companies of all sizes from the Fortune 500 to the new start up to help them build, develop and grow their social media and marketing plans. I love spending time with my family and friends. I enjoy music, reading, writing, playing sports and laughing.

6 comments

  1. Adrienne – Houston, TX – Adrienne Smith's passion has always been to help others. She started having tremendous success with her blog in early 2011 and over time she's built an awesome community. She teaches others how to do the same in her course, “Build a Blog Community”. She currently consults with entrepreneurs to help them understand what's missing and why they aren't succeeding.
    Adrienne says:

    Hey Josh,

    I read something about her post over on Hajra’s blog yesterday but didn’t read the actual post myself. I had just responded to what she claimed and also had to disagree on that for a few reasons myself.

    I agree though with what you shared here, just keep it simple. I don’t read a lot of advertisements any longer mainly because a lot of that makes my head spin as well. Just tell me what you have to offer me and be done with it, my time is precious.

    At least her post made great followup posts everywhere right! That’s what it’s all about.

    ~Adrienne

    1. TheJackB – Someone complained that this page doesn’t tell you what to expect to find here in this blog so I aim to rectify this with the next line. I am a father who writes about life, parenting, business, politics and fiction. I don’t use an editorial calendar because I don’t map out what I am going to write that far in advance. The primary focus will be on things that relate to children and parenting. But the nifty thing about that is that encompasses a wide range of things. Sometimes I work with companies on their PR/Marketing efforts. If they provide products or services I will disclose it. Here is an incomplete list of companies that I am currently or have recently worked with: Nintendo, Philips Norelco, Subway, Frigidaire and Mattel. Want to know more about me, keep reading. If I wanted to provide a professional description it would looks similar to this: Jack has a Bachelor of Arts degree in journalism from California State University Northridge. He has been writing for print and web publications for more than twenty years, covering a wide range of topics including: business, technology, parenting, politics, education, sports and religion. That is far too serious so I prefer to use something like: The Jack B. is a writer and author of 39 unpublished books and three screenplays. A former athlete and would be superhero he still fights for truth, justice and the American Way. Though he may look like a grown man, don’t fool yourself he is still a boy at heart. When he is not engaged in Walter Mitty like fantasies he is a husband, father and friend and blogs at TheJackB. Hmm…obviously I have since moved from Random Thoughts over to this place, but that is ok. This page is a work in progress which is a good description for me. I’ll probably tweak this on a regular basis so feel free to keep checking back in because you never know what might show up. I am a prolific writer and update frequently so don’t forget to scroll down the page to see what nugget of wisdom you just might have missed. Here is a short selection of posts to get you started. A Father Describes Parenting A Father’s Burden How Sister’s Helped to Train A Father of “Daddy’s Girl” Inside the Blogger’s Studio- A Dream, Er Nightmare The GermoPhobe What I Dream About I am In Love Becoming a Dad Dad’s Most Important Job A Decade of Dad Grandpa Donuts Why Your Post Sucks and Everyone Hates Your Blog A Letter To My Children- Things That Matter A Letter To My Children-2011 Dad Balances Fear Versus Reality Q&A With Daddy Blogger JackB Save The Last Dance For Me- 75 Years of Marriage An Uncertain Certainty Four Generations & A Wedding The Best Thing My Father Ever Said To Me 1 Foolproof Way To Become a Better Writer The Story Of A House- The Final Days He Died A Hero Twenty-Five Links That Will Make You A Better Writer/Blogger Thanks for coming by, I hope you like it. If you want to reach me use the contact form or try talk-to-jacknow-at-gmail-dotcom You can also find more information by clicking About Me and reading my profile there. Also, I encourage you to sign up for my newsletter using the form on the top right hand side of the page.
      Josh says:

      @d1f6f72fd673fa202677b90f0774c7af:disqus

      If Cathryn visited your blog it would be pretty evident that you know something about social media.

      I think you are absolutely right about focusing on time. That is something that you can’t get back. It makes people angry when it is wasted.

  2. Yikes! She sure hit on a tender spot – 619 comments – not counting the replies to those comments. Perhaps she does know SOMETHING about social median LOL
    I love how you admit “I might have said or written the same thing at her age.”
    I do believe in the power of the story and this is what social media gives you such a perfect opportunity to tell. Have you read Tell to Win by Peter Guber? Very good read!
    Lori

    1. TheJackB – Someone complained that this page doesn’t tell you what to expect to find here in this blog so I aim to rectify this with the next line. I am a father who writes about life, parenting, business, politics and fiction. I don’t use an editorial calendar because I don’t map out what I am going to write that far in advance. The primary focus will be on things that relate to children and parenting. But the nifty thing about that is that encompasses a wide range of things. Sometimes I work with companies on their PR/Marketing efforts. If they provide products or services I will disclose it. Here is an incomplete list of companies that I am currently or have recently worked with: Nintendo, Philips Norelco, Subway, Frigidaire and Mattel. Want to know more about me, keep reading. If I wanted to provide a professional description it would looks similar to this: Jack has a Bachelor of Arts degree in journalism from California State University Northridge. He has been writing for print and web publications for more than twenty years, covering a wide range of topics including: business, technology, parenting, politics, education, sports and religion. That is far too serious so I prefer to use something like: The Jack B. is a writer and author of 39 unpublished books and three screenplays. A former athlete and would be superhero he still fights for truth, justice and the American Way. Though he may look like a grown man, don’t fool yourself he is still a boy at heart. When he is not engaged in Walter Mitty like fantasies he is a husband, father and friend and blogs at TheJackB. Hmm…obviously I have since moved from Random Thoughts over to this place, but that is ok. This page is a work in progress which is a good description for me. I’ll probably tweak this on a regular basis so feel free to keep checking back in because you never know what might show up. I am a prolific writer and update frequently so don’t forget to scroll down the page to see what nugget of wisdom you just might have missed. Here is a short selection of posts to get you started. A Father Describes Parenting A Father’s Burden How Sister’s Helped to Train A Father of “Daddy’s Girl” Inside the Blogger’s Studio- A Dream, Er Nightmare The GermoPhobe What I Dream About I am In Love Becoming a Dad Dad’s Most Important Job A Decade of Dad Grandpa Donuts Why Your Post Sucks and Everyone Hates Your Blog A Letter To My Children- Things That Matter A Letter To My Children-2011 Dad Balances Fear Versus Reality Q&A With Daddy Blogger JackB Save The Last Dance For Me- 75 Years of Marriage An Uncertain Certainty Four Generations & A Wedding The Best Thing My Father Ever Said To Me 1 Foolproof Way To Become a Better Writer The Story Of A House- The Final Days He Died A Hero Twenty-Five Links That Will Make You A Better Writer/Blogger Thanks for coming by, I hope you like it. If you want to reach me use the contact form or try talk-to-jacknow-at-gmail-dotcom You can also find more information by clicking About Me and reading my profile there. Also, I encourage you to sign up for my newsletter using the form on the top right hand side of the page.
      Josh says:

      Hi Lori,

      Not only did she generate a ton of comments she helped provide quite a bit of blog fodder.

      I haven’t ever been afraid to speak my mind and when I was younger I was certainly willing to help “educate” those around me. She just had the misfortune of doing so publicly.

      Peter Guber sounds familiar, but I am not sure if I have read his book. I will have to look it up on Amazon.

  3. High, Josh! Thanks for the link. It was certainly an interesting thought provoking moment. My conclusions were the same as yours initially, and I turned off the incident. If I had $5 for every time I said something off par during my youth, I wouldn’t be working today! But in the end the amount of vitriol from the 25+ crowd caused me to way in.

    Your overall conclusion about simplicity is right. There were a few rights in her post that you can see. Just goes to show you, nothing is ever black and white.

    Cheers,

    Geoff

    1. TheJackB – Someone complained that this page doesn’t tell you what to expect to find here in this blog so I aim to rectify this with the next line. I am a father who writes about life, parenting, business, politics and fiction. I don’t use an editorial calendar because I don’t map out what I am going to write that far in advance. The primary focus will be on things that relate to children and parenting. But the nifty thing about that is that encompasses a wide range of things. Sometimes I work with companies on their PR/Marketing efforts. If they provide products or services I will disclose it. Here is an incomplete list of companies that I am currently or have recently worked with: Nintendo, Philips Norelco, Subway, Frigidaire and Mattel. Want to know more about me, keep reading. If I wanted to provide a professional description it would looks similar to this: Jack has a Bachelor of Arts degree in journalism from California State University Northridge. He has been writing for print and web publications for more than twenty years, covering a wide range of topics including: business, technology, parenting, politics, education, sports and religion. That is far too serious so I prefer to use something like: The Jack B. is a writer and author of 39 unpublished books and three screenplays. A former athlete and would be superhero he still fights for truth, justice and the American Way. Though he may look like a grown man, don’t fool yourself he is still a boy at heart. When he is not engaged in Walter Mitty like fantasies he is a husband, father and friend and blogs at TheJackB. Hmm…obviously I have since moved from Random Thoughts over to this place, but that is ok. This page is a work in progress which is a good description for me. I’ll probably tweak this on a regular basis so feel free to keep checking back in because you never know what might show up. I am a prolific writer and update frequently so don’t forget to scroll down the page to see what nugget of wisdom you just might have missed. Here is a short selection of posts to get you started. A Father Describes Parenting A Father’s Burden How Sister’s Helped to Train A Father of “Daddy’s Girl” Inside the Blogger’s Studio- A Dream, Er Nightmare The GermoPhobe What I Dream About I am In Love Becoming a Dad Dad’s Most Important Job A Decade of Dad Grandpa Donuts Why Your Post Sucks and Everyone Hates Your Blog A Letter To My Children- Things That Matter A Letter To My Children-2011 Dad Balances Fear Versus Reality Q&A With Daddy Blogger JackB Save The Last Dance For Me- 75 Years of Marriage An Uncertain Certainty Four Generations & A Wedding The Best Thing My Father Ever Said To Me 1 Foolproof Way To Become a Better Writer The Story Of A House- The Final Days He Died A Hero Twenty-Five Links That Will Make You A Better Writer/Blogger Thanks for coming by, I hope you like it. If you want to reach me use the contact form or try talk-to-jacknow-at-gmail-dotcom You can also find more information by clicking About Me and reading my profile there. Also, I encourage you to sign up for my newsletter using the form on the top right hand side of the page.
      Josh says:

      Hi Geoff,

      My initial reaction to the post probably wasn’t that different from a lot of us “older folks.” It irritated me and had I gone with my gut reaction I might have left a nasty comment like many of the others.

      When I took a moment to consider it was clear to me that it would be hypocritical for me to act like I have never put my size 12 boot in my mouth. Happened lots of times and even with the wisdom of age I am sure I’ll find a way to do it again.

      Sometimes the ability to provide instant reactions is not a good thing and I think this is evidence of that.

      Hopefully we all learned from it.

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