Too Many Emails In My Inbox

Wouldn’t call myself a Deadhead by any stretch of the imagination but they have more than a few songs I appreciate so here I sit writing to Franklin’s Tower.

Been fighting the monstrous numbers of emails that swarm my inbox and carefully evaluating which newsletters are important enough to continue to subscribe to and which aren’t.

Preparing to send a note and or telephone call to a few people who think it is 2001 and that forwarding every email they receive makes sense.

They never ask if I have read them or they’d know I click delete more often than read because I don’t have the time or mental bandwidth for their nonsense.

I have been tempted to ask them if they ever wonder if I subscribe/read some of the same publications and that I have already seen what they send.

Alternatively I have thought about forwarding four or five emails to them daily just to see if they even read what they send.

Is that a passive aggressive response?

Yes it is but there is some curiosity connected to it because part of me is certain they don’t ever read all they come across.

Unfriended and Blocked

Got unfriended and blocked more than a few times during the past six years or so and sometimes laugh at it all because it sounds silly to me.

Some let me go for updating too often and some let me go for calling out bad behavior and immoral beliefs.

I have never been shy about unfriending and blocking as seemed necessary either but what makes me shake my head sometimes is how people describe it.

Maybe it is an age thing, but I don’t place much weight in the actions. Maybe because it is rare that I was bothered by someone cutting me loose and I figured if I really wanted access to them I could get it.

I can accept political differences but there are moral differences that are too large for me to be interested in maintaining contact so in those cases I never looked back.

Nor did I wonder what I did if they blocked me. I kept walking and that is ok.

Our obligation is to work on building the world we want to live in and yes, I know that people I disagree with may feel that way too.

Doesn’t mean I have to give their word and their beliefs any credence. The Nazis thought they were good people. Slavers thought they were good people.

Not every ideology is moral, no matter what they say or do.

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I was particularly pleased with this post and how it came out. It has given me all sorts of ideas for follow up content.

Given that I have more time to myself for a while I am going to play around with some of those and see what I can do with them.

Part of the joy of it all comes from being able to mull things over and consider opportunities from wherever I am.

I got my beard trimmed today and when my barber put that warm towel across my face I had one idea that was particularly intriguing.

It is tied to a Johnny Cash thing I had going for a while and I got so into it I think I started humming in the chair while I thought about how to put the puzzle pieces together.

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By Joshua Wilner

Hi, I am Josh Wilner and I am happy that you have decided to visit my corner of cyberspace. I am a writer/marketer/friend and family man. My professional background includes more than twenty years in working with businesses to help them do a better job of connecting with their existing and prospective customers. More specifically I have worked with companies of all sizes from the Fortune 500 to the new start up to help them build, develop and grow their social media and marketing plans. I love spending time with my family and friends. I enjoy music, reading, writing, playing sports and laughing.

2 comments

  1. I agree. There should be a filter to most people, a bit like music: greatest hits only, casual fan and deep cuts (Essentials, interested, and big fan levels).

    Something like that anyway, and most artists should do a general probe to reveal their target audience, their likes and dislikes, if they would spend money on your content, and if yes, how much and in what way.

    Without such knowledge, and without a real way to reach into that public, your efforts will most likely fall into the deep, without real feedback.

    With that said, don’t take anything written here for granted, and test it yourself to see what works for you.

    I hope you find what you’re looking for, much love.

    1. TheJackB – Someone complained that this page doesn’t tell you what to expect to find here in this blog so I aim to rectify this with the next line. I am a father who writes about life, parenting, business, politics and fiction. I don’t use an editorial calendar because I don’t map out what I am going to write that far in advance. The primary focus will be on things that relate to children and parenting. But the nifty thing about that is that encompasses a wide range of things. Sometimes I work with companies on their PR/Marketing efforts. If they provide products or services I will disclose it. Here is an incomplete list of companies that I am currently or have recently worked with: Nintendo, Philips Norelco, Subway, Frigidaire and Mattel. Want to know more about me, keep reading. If I wanted to provide a professional description it would looks similar to this: Jack has a Bachelor of Arts degree in journalism from California State University Northridge. He has been writing for print and web publications for more than twenty years, covering a wide range of topics including: business, technology, parenting, politics, education, sports and religion. That is far too serious so I prefer to use something like: The Jack B. is a writer and author of 39 unpublished books and three screenplays. A former athlete and would be superhero he still fights for truth, justice and the American Way. Though he may look like a grown man, don’t fool yourself he is still a boy at heart. When he is not engaged in Walter Mitty like fantasies he is a husband, father and friend and blogs at TheJackB. Hmm…obviously I have since moved from Random Thoughts over to this place, but that is ok. This page is a work in progress which is a good description for me. I’ll probably tweak this on a regular basis so feel free to keep checking back in because you never know what might show up. I am a prolific writer and update frequently so don’t forget to scroll down the page to see what nugget of wisdom you just might have missed. Here is a short selection of posts to get you started. A Father Describes Parenting A Father’s Burden How Sister’s Helped to Train A Father of “Daddy’s Girl” Inside the Blogger’s Studio- A Dream, Er Nightmare The GermoPhobe What I Dream About I am In Love Becoming a Dad Dad’s Most Important Job A Decade of Dad Grandpa Donuts Why Your Post Sucks and Everyone Hates Your Blog A Letter To My Children- Things That Matter A Letter To My Children-2011 Dad Balances Fear Versus Reality Q&A With Daddy Blogger JackB Save The Last Dance For Me- 75 Years of Marriage An Uncertain Certainty Four Generations & A Wedding The Best Thing My Father Ever Said To Me 1 Foolproof Way To Become a Better Writer The Story Of A House- The Final Days He Died A Hero Twenty-Five Links That Will Make You A Better Writer/Blogger Thanks for coming by, I hope you like it. If you want to reach me use the contact form or try talk-to-jacknow-at-gmail-dotcom You can also find more information by clicking About Me and reading my profile there. Also, I encourage you to sign up for my newsletter using the form on the top right hand side of the page.
      Josh says:

      Hi Ali,

      I like that idea, a filter of ourselves…it makes sense. Would be nice to see people spend a minute considering what to share and what not to.

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