You Missed A Post

The emails come in pushing me to sign up for the newsletter so they never have to use the dreaded words, “you missed a post” with me.

Sometimes the content providers are very aggressive in their attempt to convince me not to miss a post.

It is not just one message, but multiple attempts that suggest missing a post will lead to mass chaos of biblical proportions.

Dependent upon my mood, the weather and 13 other variables I may choose to share my pleasure at being inundated with their request to ensure I never miss anything.

Some of my best work comes from being inspired by ire and general irritation so perhaps I ought to be grateful for their assistance in improving my communication skills.

It ought to also remind me not to push others to read the 34 posts they missed since their last visit but sometimes I am better at giving advice than following it.

Adventure Isn’t Coming

A couple of recent events made it clear to me that adventure isn’t coming, it is here.

Maybe it has been here longer than I realized and the hero’s journey hasn’t just begun, it is in process.

Maybe we have already given Charon funds for passage across the Styx and we’re in the process of making our way through the underworld back towards the surface.

Such things are possible because life moves so damn quickly you don’t always recognize the changes that are happening around you until they have already happened.

You’re not always recording them in real time via blogging, Instagram or other channels.

Sometimes you’re sharing your thoughts and ideas after the moment.

People ask which is better and the answer always varies depending upon your specific need.

Do you need to lean upon the perspective of thoughtful reflection or the speed of immediate reaction.

Was the question answered by your gut response or a thoughtful plan.

So here we are standing in a place we have been in before yet ever so different because the riverbanks are not what they were when we entered years before and neither are we.

Life experience and time have applied their mark upon us but it is too soon to determine if the changes are so great as to make union impossible.

That is ok because when you are on the hero’s journey you recognize that you entered it because of the improbable.

But you also recognize something in your gut, character or something you can’t define makes you believe the improbable might be possible so you strive to reach for it.

That willingness to stretch is what distinguishes and you and this moment from the others.

Some would give up and give in because complications and complexity make it seem too hard.

But not all because sometimes what appears to be a Gordian knot turns out to be far simpler to resolve than appearances would make it seem.

Sometimes you dance in the fire for a bit and discover a path through the eye of the storm and then instead of having to turn back like those others you march into the valley.

Changed, different and marked by the moment, but steadied by experience and the success earned by overcoming a challenge.

Write What You Feel & See

Doesn’t have to be the inside of June to make you feel like you are in a warm and inviting place.

Doesn’t require a particular magic or sacrifice to find the kingdom especially when you fulfill your promise to the queen to provide protection as you always have.

You write what you see and feel upon the parchment within the palace library and know that will be enough.

And if it is not, well then you will find out that it is not enough now and you can ask how long you will have to wait.

Or you can keep sending out notices saying you missed a post and see if that gets your words read, heard and listened to.

There is no single formula or path to success here other than an open mind, an open heart and a willingness to keep walking the long and winding road.

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By Joshua Wilner

Hi, I am Josh Wilner and I am happy that you have decided to visit my corner of cyberspace. I am a writer/marketer/friend and family man. My professional background includes more than twenty years in working with businesses to help them do a better job of connecting with their existing and prospective customers. More specifically I have worked with companies of all sizes from the Fortune 500 to the new start up to help them build, develop and grow their social media and marketing plans. I love spending time with my family and friends. I enjoy music, reading, writing, playing sports and laughing.

2 comments

  1. Stuart Danker – Malaysia – A Malaysian writer who's been in the no-niche niche for a decade. His debut novel, Tinhead City KL was published in April 2021. www.stuartdanker.com
    Stuart Danker says:

    I like your writing voice. And yes, sometimes it’s all about the willingness to keep walking the winding road, which I believe makes up for more than half the battle. Thanks for this post!

    1. TheJackB – Someone complained that this page doesn’t tell you what to expect to find here in this blog so I aim to rectify this with the next line. I am a father who writes about life, parenting, business, politics and fiction. I don’t use an editorial calendar because I don’t map out what I am going to write that far in advance. The primary focus will be on things that relate to children and parenting. But the nifty thing about that is that encompasses a wide range of things. Sometimes I work with companies on their PR/Marketing efforts. If they provide products or services I will disclose it. Here is an incomplete list of companies that I am currently or have recently worked with: Nintendo, Philips Norelco, Subway, Frigidaire and Mattel. Want to know more about me, keep reading. If I wanted to provide a professional description it would looks similar to this: Jack has a Bachelor of Arts degree in journalism from California State University Northridge. He has been writing for print and web publications for more than twenty years, covering a wide range of topics including: business, technology, parenting, politics, education, sports and religion. That is far too serious so I prefer to use something like: The Jack B. is a writer and author of 39 unpublished books and three screenplays. A former athlete and would be superhero he still fights for truth, justice and the American Way. Though he may look like a grown man, don’t fool yourself he is still a boy at heart. When he is not engaged in Walter Mitty like fantasies he is a husband, father and friend and blogs at TheJackB. Hmm…obviously I have since moved from Random Thoughts over to this place, but that is ok. This page is a work in progress which is a good description for me. I’ll probably tweak this on a regular basis so feel free to keep checking back in because you never know what might show up. I am a prolific writer and update frequently so don’t forget to scroll down the page to see what nugget of wisdom you just might have missed. Here is a short selection of posts to get you started. A Father Describes Parenting A Father’s Burden How Sister’s Helped to Train A Father of “Daddy’s Girl” Inside the Blogger’s Studio- A Dream, Er Nightmare The GermoPhobe What I Dream About I am In Love Becoming a Dad Dad’s Most Important Job A Decade of Dad Grandpa Donuts Why Your Post Sucks and Everyone Hates Your Blog A Letter To My Children- Things That Matter A Letter To My Children-2011 Dad Balances Fear Versus Reality Q&A With Daddy Blogger JackB Save The Last Dance For Me- 75 Years of Marriage An Uncertain Certainty Four Generations & A Wedding The Best Thing My Father Ever Said To Me 1 Foolproof Way To Become a Better Writer The Story Of A House- The Final Days He Died A Hero Twenty-Five Links That Will Make You A Better Writer/Blogger Thanks for coming by, I hope you like it. If you want to reach me use the contact form or try talk-to-jacknow-at-gmail-dotcom You can also find more information by clicking About Me and reading my profile there. Also, I encourage you to sign up for my newsletter using the form on the top right hand side of the page.
      Joshua Wilner says:

      Hi Stuart,

      Thank you for the comment. That willingness to keep going really is key isn’t it.

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