Welcome To The Digital Graveyard

One of the benefits to being a part of Generation X is our ability to seamlessly move between the analog and digital worlds.

We remember when referencing the cloud referred to white puffy balls in the sky above and filing always referred to something paper based.

If you asked us how we organized our pictures many would refer to the photo albums we had and or perhaps sheepishly mention how we intended to move the photos we had in a shoe box or something similar to the aforementioned albums.

Hell, if you caught us at the right moment we might have told you about the great trip or party we were just at and how we hoped our pictures were good because in the days of film you had to wait and see if your snaps were worth saving.

That is because it sucked to blow a shot on a roll of 12, 24 or 36, especially when you had to pay to find out that your photo was out of focus, Aunt Bunny had closed her eyes or discovered that some kid had photobombed you.

My apologies if that was me, back in those days I took immense pleasure in casually inserting myself into the background or side of your photo.

Welcome To The Digital Graveyard

My little sister and her family are somewhere in the skies above us.

In a handful of hours they’ll be back on their side of the country and will resume their normal lives just as we have done here.

Ten days and several hundred pictures later I am not worried about whether I took good or bad pictures in the same way I once was because digital photography has turned the particular world upside down.

What I do worry about is trying to make sure I have saved my files in places that will help them live forever or at least long enough for us to look back upon them in the years to come and smile at the memories we made.

But because I don’t have to develop and print my pictures anymore I have fallen into a habit of not printing out any shots.

Instead of trying to find space on my shelves for new albums filled with photographs of memories I never want to forget I have a growing digital graveyard.

Granted my digital graveyard consists of more than just photos. There is an assortment of other odds and ends living in my cloud and other forms of digital media.

I try to make a point to clean our my inboxes, Google Drive and all of the other places the digital stuff accumulates but because it doesn’t take up hard space and because storage has become so cheap I am not as active about maintaining order there as I should be.

Unless the photos are really, really bad they end up sticking around and even though I try to create digital albums there aren’t as many as there could or probably should be.

Death and Digital Files

I don’t mean to be morbid, but sometimes I think about what will happen to my digital files when I die.

Some of the files I keep online will definitely need to be passed along to family but not all.

No need to give them the digital detritus anymore than I would want to pass along old file folders filled with things that have no value to anyone besides me.

It reminds me of Ozymandias:

“My name is Ozymandias, king of kings:
Look on my works, ye Mighty, and despair!”
Nothing beside remains: round the decay
Of that colossal wreck, boundless and bare,
The lone and level sands stretch far away.

I suppose I am no different than many when I say that I hope after I am gone people have good memories and that I made a difference in the world.

Maybe that digital graveyard will have more value than I realize and help provide the proof that I did more than just take up space.

Maybe 200 years from now my great, great, great, great-grandchildren will use those files to see what life was like now and to gain some benefit or insight into their lives and their world.

Assuming that the files survive and they’re still able to access them.

But I don’t have time to worry about that now because I am too busy trying to clear out the junk and figure out the best way to maintain my digital photo albums.

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By Joshua Wilner

Hi, I am Josh Wilner and I am happy that you have decided to visit my corner of cyberspace. I am a writer/marketer/friend and family man. My professional background includes more than twenty years in working with businesses to help them do a better job of connecting with their existing and prospective customers. More specifically I have worked with companies of all sizes from the Fortune 500 to the new start up to help them build, develop and grow their social media and marketing plans. I love spending time with my family and friends. I enjoy music, reading, writing, playing sports and laughing.

7 comments

  1. At least the photo albums got the once over when the previous generation passed. When we passed our stuff will simply be deleted and sent off to the digital graveyard. Find immortality elsewhere.
    Cool saying by the way.

    1. TheJackB – Someone complained that this page doesn’t tell you what to expect to find here in this blog so I aim to rectify this with the next line. I am a father who writes about life, parenting, business, politics and fiction. I don’t use an editorial calendar because I don’t map out what I am going to write that far in advance. The primary focus will be on things that relate to children and parenting. But the nifty thing about that is that encompasses a wide range of things. Sometimes I work with companies on their PR/Marketing efforts. If they provide products or services I will disclose it. Here is an incomplete list of companies that I am currently or have recently worked with: Nintendo, Philips Norelco, Subway, Frigidaire and Mattel. Want to know more about me, keep reading. If I wanted to provide a professional description it would looks similar to this: Jack has a Bachelor of Arts degree in journalism from California State University Northridge. He has been writing for print and web publications for more than twenty years, covering a wide range of topics including: business, technology, parenting, politics, education, sports and religion. That is far too serious so I prefer to use something like: The Jack B. is a writer and author of 39 unpublished books and three screenplays. A former athlete and would be superhero he still fights for truth, justice and the American Way. Though he may look like a grown man, don’t fool yourself he is still a boy at heart. When he is not engaged in Walter Mitty like fantasies he is a husband, father and friend and blogs at TheJackB. Hmm…obviously I have since moved from Random Thoughts over to this place, but that is ok. This page is a work in progress which is a good description for me. I’ll probably tweak this on a regular basis so feel free to keep checking back in because you never know what might show up. I am a prolific writer and update frequently so don’t forget to scroll down the page to see what nugget of wisdom you just might have missed. Here is a short selection of posts to get you started. A Father Describes Parenting A Father’s Burden How Sister’s Helped to Train A Father of “Daddy’s Girl” Inside the Blogger’s Studio- A Dream, Er Nightmare The GermoPhobe What I Dream About I am In Love Becoming a Dad Dad’s Most Important Job A Decade of Dad Grandpa Donuts Why Your Post Sucks and Everyone Hates Your Blog A Letter To My Children- Things That Matter A Letter To My Children-2011 Dad Balances Fear Versus Reality Q&A With Daddy Blogger JackB Save The Last Dance For Me- 75 Years of Marriage An Uncertain Certainty Four Generations & A Wedding The Best Thing My Father Ever Said To Me 1 Foolproof Way To Become a Better Writer The Story Of A House- The Final Days He Died A Hero Twenty-Five Links That Will Make You A Better Writer/Blogger Thanks for coming by, I hope you like it. If you want to reach me use the contact form or try talk-to-jacknow-at-gmail-dotcom You can also find more information by clicking About Me and reading my profile there. Also, I encourage you to sign up for my newsletter using the form on the top right hand side of the page.
      Joshua says:

      I hate the idea that our memories will be deleted and forgotten, maybe it’s ego but something about it burns a bit.

  2. Hey there Josh,

    This is a subject I’m thinking a lot about, since having my own kids a few short years back.

    Like you, I grew up with analog, and made the switch to digital probably around 10 years ago. Maybe less.

    Like you I have a wonderful collection of hard copy pictures and mementos (including eight albums from my wedding).

    Now, though, you’d be hard pushed to find anything hard copy, as Google Drive and USB drives take over.

    It does make me wonder what kind of reference points we’re leaving for future historians, as no doubt the tech we’re using at the moment will be obsolete.

    I read a great piece recently about this generation being the one that history forgets, due to our reliance on digital solutions.

    Time to get to Walmart and bulk printing, methinks.

    1. TheJackB – Someone complained that this page doesn’t tell you what to expect to find here in this blog so I aim to rectify this with the next line. I am a father who writes about life, parenting, business, politics and fiction. I don’t use an editorial calendar because I don’t map out what I am going to write that far in advance. The primary focus will be on things that relate to children and parenting. But the nifty thing about that is that encompasses a wide range of things. Sometimes I work with companies on their PR/Marketing efforts. If they provide products or services I will disclose it. Here is an incomplete list of companies that I am currently or have recently worked with: Nintendo, Philips Norelco, Subway, Frigidaire and Mattel. Want to know more about me, keep reading. If I wanted to provide a professional description it would looks similar to this: Jack has a Bachelor of Arts degree in journalism from California State University Northridge. He has been writing for print and web publications for more than twenty years, covering a wide range of topics including: business, technology, parenting, politics, education, sports and religion. That is far too serious so I prefer to use something like: The Jack B. is a writer and author of 39 unpublished books and three screenplays. A former athlete and would be superhero he still fights for truth, justice and the American Way. Though he may look like a grown man, don’t fool yourself he is still a boy at heart. When he is not engaged in Walter Mitty like fantasies he is a husband, father and friend and blogs at TheJackB. Hmm…obviously I have since moved from Random Thoughts over to this place, but that is ok. This page is a work in progress which is a good description for me. I’ll probably tweak this on a regular basis so feel free to keep checking back in because you never know what might show up. I am a prolific writer and update frequently so don’t forget to scroll down the page to see what nugget of wisdom you just might have missed. Here is a short selection of posts to get you started. A Father Describes Parenting A Father’s Burden How Sister’s Helped to Train A Father of “Daddy’s Girl” Inside the Blogger’s Studio- A Dream, Er Nightmare The GermoPhobe What I Dream About I am In Love Becoming a Dad Dad’s Most Important Job A Decade of Dad Grandpa Donuts Why Your Post Sucks and Everyone Hates Your Blog A Letter To My Children- Things That Matter A Letter To My Children-2011 Dad Balances Fear Versus Reality Q&A With Daddy Blogger JackB Save The Last Dance For Me- 75 Years of Marriage An Uncertain Certainty Four Generations & A Wedding The Best Thing My Father Ever Said To Me 1 Foolproof Way To Become a Better Writer The Story Of A House- The Final Days He Died A Hero Twenty-Five Links That Will Make You A Better Writer/Blogger Thanks for coming by, I hope you like it. If you want to reach me use the contact form or try talk-to-jacknow-at-gmail-dotcom You can also find more information by clicking About Me and reading my profile there. Also, I encourage you to sign up for my newsletter using the form on the top right hand side of the page.
      Joshua says:

      Hi Danny,

      Sunday night I showed my son the ‘old’ slide projector and the boxes of slides I never look at anymore and haven’t in years because even though I still have the ‘tech’ to use it, I don’t. It is never top of mind anymore.

      Funny to remember how I left for a trip in ’85 hearing my dad assure me slides would be preferable to film. Everything changes. 🙂

      1. Ha, whenever I hear the term “slides” I either think of embarrassing family trips to the beach, or boring Religious Education studies.

        At least one of them got better with time. 🙂

  3. lori – Canada – I love figuring it all out and finding I was wrong, changing my mind, learning that I can get excited again about something I thought I was moving away from; changing life-long habits. Mostly I love my husband and my children; watching us all grow through the changes of life, family reunions and celebrations with a good bottle of port and a shrimp ring.
    Lori says:

    Oh Josh, this is a real advantage/problem that comes with the digital age!
    How to organize the many-more digital photos than you ever would have had on photo paper! How to back them up and then back up the backups so nothing is lost! How to be sure, even of that! 🙂

    I don’t think its only a problem of being disorganized, though, or of taking too many photos so much as a desire to live in the moment and let the past take care of itself. What do you think?

    My uncle used to ask me what I was taking up in university. When I told him he always said, “Just make sure you’re taking up more than just space.” LOL

    1. TheJackB – Someone complained that this page doesn’t tell you what to expect to find here in this blog so I aim to rectify this with the next line. I am a father who writes about life, parenting, business, politics and fiction. I don’t use an editorial calendar because I don’t map out what I am going to write that far in advance. The primary focus will be on things that relate to children and parenting. But the nifty thing about that is that encompasses a wide range of things. Sometimes I work with companies on their PR/Marketing efforts. If they provide products or services I will disclose it. Here is an incomplete list of companies that I am currently or have recently worked with: Nintendo, Philips Norelco, Subway, Frigidaire and Mattel. Want to know more about me, keep reading. If I wanted to provide a professional description it would looks similar to this: Jack has a Bachelor of Arts degree in journalism from California State University Northridge. He has been writing for print and web publications for more than twenty years, covering a wide range of topics including: business, technology, parenting, politics, education, sports and religion. That is far too serious so I prefer to use something like: The Jack B. is a writer and author of 39 unpublished books and three screenplays. A former athlete and would be superhero he still fights for truth, justice and the American Way. Though he may look like a grown man, don’t fool yourself he is still a boy at heart. When he is not engaged in Walter Mitty like fantasies he is a husband, father and friend and blogs at TheJackB. Hmm…obviously I have since moved from Random Thoughts over to this place, but that is ok. This page is a work in progress which is a good description for me. I’ll probably tweak this on a regular basis so feel free to keep checking back in because you never know what might show up. I am a prolific writer and update frequently so don’t forget to scroll down the page to see what nugget of wisdom you just might have missed. Here is a short selection of posts to get you started. A Father Describes Parenting A Father’s Burden How Sister’s Helped to Train A Father of “Daddy’s Girl” Inside the Blogger’s Studio- A Dream, Er Nightmare The GermoPhobe What I Dream About I am In Love Becoming a Dad Dad’s Most Important Job A Decade of Dad Grandpa Donuts Why Your Post Sucks and Everyone Hates Your Blog A Letter To My Children- Things That Matter A Letter To My Children-2011 Dad Balances Fear Versus Reality Q&A With Daddy Blogger JackB Save The Last Dance For Me- 75 Years of Marriage An Uncertain Certainty Four Generations & A Wedding The Best Thing My Father Ever Said To Me 1 Foolproof Way To Become a Better Writer The Story Of A House- The Final Days He Died A Hero Twenty-Five Links That Will Make You A Better Writer/Blogger Thanks for coming by, I hope you like it. If you want to reach me use the contact form or try talk-to-jacknow-at-gmail-dotcom You can also find more information by clicking About Me and reading my profile there. Also, I encourage you to sign up for my newsletter using the form on the top right hand side of the page.
      Joshua says:

      Hi Lori,

      A desire to live in the moment and let the past take care of itself is such a beautiful sentiment. I have been thinking about it all day, I love that.

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