Is Commenting On Blogs Dead?


The first time Uncle John told me that story I punched him in the mouth but not because I had anger management issues.

It was because after he finished explaining how anything could be real until disproven he said a boy wasn’t strong enough to hurt a man.

I figured when opportunity knocks you ought to answer the door and I didn’t want miss out on getting a free shot in because when you are a kid you are told you shouldn’t hit anyone unless you have a good reason.

Generally that good reason is couched in language like “you can hit someone if you are defending yourself or your little sister(s) but I have always been good at reading between the lines and saw this as license to take my shot.

Beatlemania isn’t what it used to be but people still like to stories about Uncle John, especially the one about how he once stopped Yoko from beating up Uncle Ringo with his own drum sticks.

But between you and me, I don’t like telling many of these stories very often because even though they make great ice breakers once you start telling them no one is interested in hearing tales about your life.

Is Commenting On Blogs Dead?

This is a conversation that comes up with more frequency than the requests to hear stories about Uncle John but it is not nearly as depressing.

Maybe a bit more boring, but not nearly as depressing as having people pretend to be interested in your life. Imagine what it is like having 983 million people snore their way through your 30 second story about your life just so they can wake up to hear you tell them what it was like to have some dead famous dude sing you a lullaby.

Anyway, the reason these conversations about commenting come up is because the elders of the blogosphere speak of a time when they would write silly posts about nothing and receive 50 comments.

Really, it happens. I know. I have seen it.

These folks stand their slack jawed while some dude named Jack talks about this post he wrote about how to hard boil eggs got 50 comments.

It is followed by a bunch of head nodding and then someone talks about how they never got that man comments but they used to average around 12 per post and now they are lucky if they get two or three.

That leads into “comments are dead” and or “I am going to kill the comments on my blog.”

Comments Aren’t Dead

Comments and commenting aren’t dead, not even close. There is as much truth in that as saying that blogging is dead.

What is the true is that commenting has slowed down and that you have to work harder to generate comments on your blog.

You can blame that upon the fragmentation that occurred with the arrival of multiple social media platforms. People will tell you they don’t comment on blogs because they are talking about things on Facebook, Twitter etc.

But I’ll guarantee that if you focus on providing interesting, entertaining and educational content you can get people to comment.

Part of the way you do that is by making it easy for them to do so and part of doing it is by asking them to. Insert a Call-to-action in a post and follow up by responding to comments.

Push to build conversation and community.

And let’s not forget the importance of commenting on other blogs.

Why His Guitar Gently Weeps

If Uncle John were around he might tell you the real story about why George’s guitar was covered in tears and how it ‘gently weeps’ was the exact opposite of what happened.

Torrential downpour created by an angry woman with drumsticks is more like it. So much for giving peace a chance.

Imagine all the people who were saved from that crazy imagery until now.

Comments aren’t dead and my advice to bloggers is even if you disagree you should still leave your comment section open.

Better to give people an opportunity and a choice than none at all.

Besides your blog should be the hub of your social media empire. If you are self hosted it is the one place you don’t run into the risks involved with being a digital sharecropper.

What do you think? Let’s talk about it in the comments.

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By Joshua Wilner

Hi, I am Josh Wilner and I am happy that you have decided to visit my corner of cyberspace. I am a writer/marketer/friend and family man. My professional background includes more than twenty years in working with businesses to help them do a better job of connecting with their existing and prospective customers. More specifically I have worked with companies of all sizes from the Fortune 500 to the new start up to help them build, develop and grow their social media and marketing plans. I love spending time with my family and friends. I enjoy music, reading, writing, playing sports and laughing.

4 comments

  1. Underdaddy – The Secret Lair – I am a well-intentioned father of four girls. I assume the identity of Underdaddy to carry out my mission of publicizing my mistakes and funny adventures so that others may smile. Engineer by day, I understand that if no one ever discusses failures then no progress will ever be made. In that light, I represent a lot of potential progress.
    Underdaddy says:

    I think [religious affiliation] people are the only ones who don’t comment because they are [adjective] [nouns]. I [strong feeling] them.

    1. TheJackB – Someone complained that this page doesn’t tell you what to expect to find here in this blog so I aim to rectify this with the next line. I am a father who writes about life, parenting, business, politics and fiction. I don’t use an editorial calendar because I don’t map out what I am going to write that far in advance. The primary focus will be on things that relate to children and parenting. But the nifty thing about that is that encompasses a wide range of things. Sometimes I work with companies on their PR/Marketing efforts. If they provide products or services I will disclose it. Here is an incomplete list of companies that I am currently or have recently worked with: Nintendo, Philips Norelco, Subway, Frigidaire and Mattel. Want to know more about me, keep reading. If I wanted to provide a professional description it would looks similar to this: Jack has a Bachelor of Arts degree in journalism from California State University Northridge. He has been writing for print and web publications for more than twenty years, covering a wide range of topics including: business, technology, parenting, politics, education, sports and religion. That is far too serious so I prefer to use something like: The Jack B. is a writer and author of 39 unpublished books and three screenplays. A former athlete and would be superhero he still fights for truth, justice and the American Way. Though he may look like a grown man, don’t fool yourself he is still a boy at heart. When he is not engaged in Walter Mitty like fantasies he is a husband, father and friend and blogs at TheJackB. Hmm…obviously I have since moved from Random Thoughts over to this place, but that is ok. This page is a work in progress which is a good description for me. I’ll probably tweak this on a regular basis so feel free to keep checking back in because you never know what might show up. I am a prolific writer and update frequently so don’t forget to scroll down the page to see what nugget of wisdom you just might have missed. Here is a short selection of posts to get you started. A Father Describes Parenting A Father’s Burden How Sister’s Helped to Train A Father of “Daddy’s Girl” Inside the Blogger’s Studio- A Dream, Er Nightmare The GermoPhobe What I Dream About I am In Love Becoming a Dad Dad’s Most Important Job A Decade of Dad Grandpa Donuts Why Your Post Sucks and Everyone Hates Your Blog A Letter To My Children- Things That Matter A Letter To My Children-2011 Dad Balances Fear Versus Reality Q&A With Daddy Blogger JackB Save The Last Dance For Me- 75 Years of Marriage An Uncertain Certainty Four Generations & A Wedding The Best Thing My Father Ever Said To Me 1 Foolproof Way To Become a Better Writer The Story Of A House- The Final Days He Died A Hero Twenty-Five Links That Will Make You A Better Writer/Blogger Thanks for coming by, I hope you like it. If you want to reach me use the contact form or try talk-to-jacknow-at-gmail-dotcom You can also find more information by clicking About Me and reading my profile there. Also, I encourage you to sign up for my newsletter using the form on the top right hand side of the page.
      Josh says:

      @Underdaddy Southerners especially, those [religious affiliation] people are [adjective].

  2. Views From an Urban Lake – UK – Photographer, Birdwatcher, Writer, Blogger and Dad to 3 in no particular order. https://www.viewsfromanurbanlake.co.uk
    Ashley Beolens says:

    You’d never catch me commenting on a blog

    1. TheJackB – Someone complained that this page doesn’t tell you what to expect to find here in this blog so I aim to rectify this with the next line. I am a father who writes about life, parenting, business, politics and fiction. I don’t use an editorial calendar because I don’t map out what I am going to write that far in advance. The primary focus will be on things that relate to children and parenting. But the nifty thing about that is that encompasses a wide range of things. Sometimes I work with companies on their PR/Marketing efforts. If they provide products or services I will disclose it. Here is an incomplete list of companies that I am currently or have recently worked with: Nintendo, Philips Norelco, Subway, Frigidaire and Mattel. Want to know more about me, keep reading. If I wanted to provide a professional description it would looks similar to this: Jack has a Bachelor of Arts degree in journalism from California State University Northridge. He has been writing for print and web publications for more than twenty years, covering a wide range of topics including: business, technology, parenting, politics, education, sports and religion. That is far too serious so I prefer to use something like: The Jack B. is a writer and author of 39 unpublished books and three screenplays. A former athlete and would be superhero he still fights for truth, justice and the American Way. Though he may look like a grown man, don’t fool yourself he is still a boy at heart. When he is not engaged in Walter Mitty like fantasies he is a husband, father and friend and blogs at TheJackB. Hmm…obviously I have since moved from Random Thoughts over to this place, but that is ok. This page is a work in progress which is a good description for me. I’ll probably tweak this on a regular basis so feel free to keep checking back in because you never know what might show up. I am a prolific writer and update frequently so don’t forget to scroll down the page to see what nugget of wisdom you just might have missed. Here is a short selection of posts to get you started. A Father Describes Parenting A Father’s Burden How Sister’s Helped to Train A Father of “Daddy’s Girl” Inside the Blogger’s Studio- A Dream, Er Nightmare The GermoPhobe What I Dream About I am In Love Becoming a Dad Dad’s Most Important Job A Decade of Dad Grandpa Donuts Why Your Post Sucks and Everyone Hates Your Blog A Letter To My Children- Things That Matter A Letter To My Children-2011 Dad Balances Fear Versus Reality Q&A With Daddy Blogger JackB Save The Last Dance For Me- 75 Years of Marriage An Uncertain Certainty Four Generations & A Wedding The Best Thing My Father Ever Said To Me 1 Foolproof Way To Become a Better Writer The Story Of A House- The Final Days He Died A Hero Twenty-Five Links That Will Make You A Better Writer/Blogger Thanks for coming by, I hope you like it. If you want to reach me use the contact form or try talk-to-jacknow-at-gmail-dotcom You can also find more information by clicking About Me and reading my profile there. Also, I encourage you to sign up for my newsletter using the form on the top right hand side of the page.
      Josh says:

      @ashleybeolens:disqus Me either, I leave posts not comments.

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