Do You Want Fans, Minions or Groupies?

The baby-turned-preteen boy and I hit the LA Auto show last weekend. We braved the hordes of amateur and professional photographers and listened to people provide a list of reasons why they love/hate a particular brand of car.

Midway through our visit he wandered into the telephone booth in the photo above and pretended to make a call. I snapped a photo of him and was preparing to convince some relatives that we had taken an impromptu trip to the U.K when he popped out and said something that surprised me.

“Well I can cross that off of the things I have never done.”

What Do You Mean Never Done Before?

I really shouldn’t have been surprised to hear he has never been inside a phone booth before but sometimes I forget about how different the world he is growing up than the one I did.

He asked me a few questions about what phone booths were like when I was his age and I did my best to focus on him and not be distracted by thoughts of branding, image and age related impressions.

Age is a funny thing and I realized that I relate to it in a sort of funny way.

My daughter likes to make sure I clarify that I am not just 44, I am 44.5. It doesn’t really bother me because it is accurate and it is better than the alternative, yet I realize that I don’t view myself as being a middle aged man.

Even though I am clear on my age I still think of myself as being closer to being a kid than an old man but my reference points are probably closer to the latter than the former.

Some years back I took him out to breakfast at the local IHOP and listened as he told me he wanted some minions. I thought it was an interesting word to use and asked him if he preferred minions to fans or groupies.

He didn’t understand why I asked the question and it was only when I saw the menu that I realized that my confusion stemmed from some characters in the kids’ movie Despicable Me.

Perception and Your Business

Cars are an interesting product because so much emotion can be tied up in them. It wouldn’t be a stretch to suggest that many of you reading this have many memories that are associated and or tied up with cars.

So it is not surprising to me to see how involved people can become with a particular brand/model. That perception about the brand/model isn’t always positive either, it can easily go the other direction.

We heard more than a few comments at the show that supported that too and it made me think about what sort of perception we want for our business and how that might vary from brand to brand and company to company.

If we circle back to the headline and talk about fans, groupies and minions we can take a look at the definitions of each and think about whether it would be good or bad for the supporters of Company XYZ to be labeled as one of the three.

Fans, Minions and Groupies

When people ask me about building the blog and growing the community here they sometimes ask me how many fans I want. Sometimes I’ll say a million and sometimes I’ll say I prefer minions because they do your bidding without question.

Groupie is a term that can have a pejorative connotation too which is why I don’t really want groupies either.

It is fun to kid around about these things but ultimately I prefer to be known for having readers who are smart, independent and thoughtful. I am not the guy who truly wants minions.

Other people/businesses might feel differently. They might or might not care, all depends on their goals and what sort of image they are shooting for.

What do you think?

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By Joshua Wilner

Hi, I am Josh Wilner and I am happy that you have decided to visit my corner of cyberspace. I am a writer/marketer/friend and family man. My professional background includes more than twenty years in working with businesses to help them do a better job of connecting with their existing and prospective customers. More specifically I have worked with companies of all sizes from the Fortune 500 to the new start up to help them build, develop and grow their social media and marketing plans. I love spending time with my family and friends. I enjoy music, reading, writing, playing sports and laughing.

4 comments

  1. TheJackB – Someone complained that this page doesn’t tell you what to expect to find here in this blog so I aim to rectify this with the next line. I am a father who writes about life, parenting, business, politics and fiction. I don’t use an editorial calendar because I don’t map out what I am going to write that far in advance. The primary focus will be on things that relate to children and parenting. But the nifty thing about that is that encompasses a wide range of things. Sometimes I work with companies on their PR/Marketing efforts. If they provide products or services I will disclose it. Here is an incomplete list of companies that I am currently or have recently worked with: Nintendo, Philips Norelco, Subway, Frigidaire and Mattel. Want to know more about me, keep reading. If I wanted to provide a professional description it would looks similar to this: Jack has a Bachelor of Arts degree in journalism from California State University Northridge. He has been writing for print and web publications for more than twenty years, covering a wide range of topics including: business, technology, parenting, politics, education, sports and religion. That is far too serious so I prefer to use something like: The Jack B. is a writer and author of 39 unpublished books and three screenplays. A former athlete and would be superhero he still fights for truth, justice and the American Way. Though he may look like a grown man, don’t fool yourself he is still a boy at heart. When he is not engaged in Walter Mitty like fantasies he is a husband, father and friend and blogs at TheJackB. Hmm…obviously I have since moved from Random Thoughts over to this place, but that is ok. This page is a work in progress which is a good description for me. I’ll probably tweak this on a regular basis so feel free to keep checking back in because you never know what might show up. I am a prolific writer and update frequently so don’t forget to scroll down the page to see what nugget of wisdom you just might have missed. Here is a short selection of posts to get you started. A Father Describes Parenting A Father’s Burden How Sister’s Helped to Train A Father of “Daddy’s Girl” Inside the Blogger’s Studio- A Dream, Er Nightmare The GermoPhobe What I Dream About I am In Love Becoming a Dad Dad’s Most Important Job A Decade of Dad Grandpa Donuts Why Your Post Sucks and Everyone Hates Your Blog A Letter To My Children- Things That Matter A Letter To My Children-2011 Dad Balances Fear Versus Reality Q&A With Daddy Blogger JackB Save The Last Dance For Me- 75 Years of Marriage An Uncertain Certainty Four Generations & A Wedding The Best Thing My Father Ever Said To Me 1 Foolproof Way To Become a Better Writer The Story Of A House- The Final Days He Died A Hero Twenty-Five Links That Will Make You A Better Writer/Blogger Thanks for coming by, I hope you like it. If you want to reach me use the contact form or try talk-to-jacknow-at-gmail-dotcom You can also find more information by clicking About Me and reading my profile there. Also, I encourage you to sign up for my newsletter using the form on the top right hand side of the page.
    Joshua Wilner/A Writer Writes says:

    Mary StephensonEvery time I think about whether I would want to be famous I focus on how I like doing normal stuff. I want to be able to go the grocery store, see a movie and just live without chaos.
    That is not something that I ever want to give up.

    No bodyguards for me.

  2. TheJackB – Someone complained that this page doesn’t tell you what to expect to find here in this blog so I aim to rectify this with the next line. I am a father who writes about life, parenting, business, politics and fiction. I don’t use an editorial calendar because I don’t map out what I am going to write that far in advance. The primary focus will be on things that relate to children and parenting. But the nifty thing about that is that encompasses a wide range of things. Sometimes I work with companies on their PR/Marketing efforts. If they provide products or services I will disclose it. Here is an incomplete list of companies that I am currently or have recently worked with: Nintendo, Philips Norelco, Subway, Frigidaire and Mattel. Want to know more about me, keep reading. If I wanted to provide a professional description it would looks similar to this: Jack has a Bachelor of Arts degree in journalism from California State University Northridge. He has been writing for print and web publications for more than twenty years, covering a wide range of topics including: business, technology, parenting, politics, education, sports and religion. That is far too serious so I prefer to use something like: The Jack B. is a writer and author of 39 unpublished books and three screenplays. A former athlete and would be superhero he still fights for truth, justice and the American Way. Though he may look like a grown man, don’t fool yourself he is still a boy at heart. When he is not engaged in Walter Mitty like fantasies he is a husband, father and friend and blogs at TheJackB. Hmm…obviously I have since moved from Random Thoughts over to this place, but that is ok. This page is a work in progress which is a good description for me. I’ll probably tweak this on a regular basis so feel free to keep checking back in because you never know what might show up. I am a prolific writer and update frequently so don’t forget to scroll down the page to see what nugget of wisdom you just might have missed. Here is a short selection of posts to get you started. A Father Describes Parenting A Father’s Burden How Sister’s Helped to Train A Father of “Daddy’s Girl” Inside the Blogger’s Studio- A Dream, Er Nightmare The GermoPhobe What I Dream About I am In Love Becoming a Dad Dad’s Most Important Job A Decade of Dad Grandpa Donuts Why Your Post Sucks and Everyone Hates Your Blog A Letter To My Children- Things That Matter A Letter To My Children-2011 Dad Balances Fear Versus Reality Q&A With Daddy Blogger JackB Save The Last Dance For Me- 75 Years of Marriage An Uncertain Certainty Four Generations & A Wedding The Best Thing My Father Ever Said To Me 1 Foolproof Way To Become a Better Writer The Story Of A House- The Final Days He Died A Hero Twenty-Five Links That Will Make You A Better Writer/Blogger Thanks for coming by, I hope you like it. If you want to reach me use the contact form or try talk-to-jacknow-at-gmail-dotcom You can also find more information by clicking About Me and reading my profile there. Also, I encourage you to sign up for my newsletter using the form on the top right hand side of the page.
    Joshua Wilner/A Writer Writes says:

    Micah YongoThat connection is much more interesting with like minded individuals. It makes a real difference.

  3. Never thought much about kids never being in  a phone booth.  Rarely can you even find a public phone so I suppose booths are pretty much a thing of the past.
    I am with you on this one, smart readers with independent ideas.  Groupies would work if they wanted to promote you and spend all their money….but alas, it only works if you are famous.  Then you would need a body guard to just go about  town doing  normal things!

  4. I feel the same way. For me it’s all about having readers to engage and converse with. The back and forth, the dialogue, that’s the fun part. So yeah, ‘smart, independent, thoughtful’ readers pretty much fits the bill for me too. Connecting with others, like-minded or otherwise, is what I love most about blogging.

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