Bloggers Must Evolve Or Die


My daughter asked me to speak with her about how old she needs to be to get a Facebook account and to teach her about blogging and social media.

We had the usual conversation about what you should or should not post online and talked about why some bloggers last and others don’t.

I gave her my standard answer about how if you are not blogging for work you need to have fun or you won’t last and then told her that you have to be flexible because things change quickly in cyberspace.

Both comments are true but there is a problem with the second one because it makes an assumption about what constitutes a successful blog.

That assumption is one that says success is based upon traffic and that if you are not generating comments and or shares you are not producing the right content.

But that is not necessarily true.

Why?

It makes an unsubstantiated assumption about what bloggers are trying to do with their blog and that is a mistake.

Instead of having a discussion about goals and objectives it leaps right into the sort of presumption I prefer to avoid.

Some of us use our blogs as places to generate conversation and commentary about things that interest us. Others use them as marketing devices.

While it is true that if you don’t know why you are blogging you can’t develop a plan or objective it is also true you don’t necessarily have to have one.

You really can do this for fun or because it serves as a tool to keep your writing skills sharp. You can do it for intellectual stimulation.

None of those necessarily require an objective, just a willingness to sit down at the keyboard and publish content.

I use this joint for all of these purposes and more.

Bloggers Must Evolve Or Die

If we circle back to the initial premise that bloggers must evolve or die I would argue I have been following that.

When I launched this particular blog it started out with a clear focus on business and social media. That was intentional on my part but so was my decision to mix things up a bit.

I knew I was one of millions of people covering these topics and worried about getting caught up in the noise and the echo chamber.

So I mixed things up because I found it more interesting and was confident you would do too.

There have been multiple commenting systems installed and or deactivated here because I have made a point to look for the ones that worked best for you and for me.

The 12 posts below do a nice job of highlighting much of that.

  1. Is Commenting On Blogs Dead?
  2. How Long Does It Take To Build A Community?
  3. How To Write a Speech For Your Son’s Bar Mitzvah
  4. How Do You Scam A Scammer?
  5. Is It Really More Fun To Be Evil?
  6. How Much Does 50 Tons of Bagels Weigh?
  7. How Long Does It Take To Build A Successful Blog
  8. Once We Were Kings
  9. The Importance Of Writing For People
  10. What Is The Hardest Part Of Blogging?
  11. Are You Suffering From The Echo Chamber Effect?
  12. Do You Still Read Books/Magazines?

The Real Message of This Post/Conversation

The real message of this post and my conversation with my daughter was the need to be willing to roll with the punches and change as needed.

When our conversation started it wasn’t my intent to try and turn it into a teaching moment but I took a father’s prerogative to try and teach his children and ran with it.

The ability to go along and get along goes a long way in life in general not just social media.

What do you think?

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By Joshua Wilner

Hi, I am Josh Wilner and I am happy that you have decided to visit my corner of cyberspace. I am a writer/marketer/friend and family man. My professional background includes more than twenty years in working with businesses to help them do a better job of connecting with their existing and prospective customers. More specifically I have worked with companies of all sizes from the Fortune 500 to the new start up to help them build, develop and grow their social media and marketing plans. I love spending time with my family and friends. I enjoy music, reading, writing, playing sports and laughing.

7 comments

  1. thompsonland – Thanks for stopping by. I'm a husband, father, musician, songwriter, and writer who sometimes writes witty things online. I am learning to navigate ADHD, Anxiety, and a host of other issues that makes me abnormal. Have a great day. You look great today.
    Bryan Thompson says:

    Hi Joshua! First time on your blog. I found it through Craig McBreen’s site. I had a personal growth blog back in 2010-2012 that ultimately ended because…well, I just kind of stopped having fun with it. It became cumbersome and seemed like it was more for marketing purposes before it was all over. If you are ONLY blogging for work reasons, I think you will likely fizzle out at some point. Always make sure you love what you’re doing. Great post.

    1. TheJackB – Someone complained that this page doesn’t tell you what to expect to find here in this blog so I aim to rectify this with the next line. I am a father who writes about life, parenting, business, politics and fiction. I don’t use an editorial calendar because I don’t map out what I am going to write that far in advance. The primary focus will be on things that relate to children and parenting. But the nifty thing about that is that encompasses a wide range of things. Sometimes I work with companies on their PR/Marketing efforts. If they provide products or services I will disclose it. Here is an incomplete list of companies that I am currently or have recently worked with: Nintendo, Philips Norelco, Subway, Frigidaire and Mattel. Want to know more about me, keep reading. If I wanted to provide a professional description it would looks similar to this: Jack has a Bachelor of Arts degree in journalism from California State University Northridge. He has been writing for print and web publications for more than twenty years, covering a wide range of topics including: business, technology, parenting, politics, education, sports and religion. That is far too serious so I prefer to use something like: The Jack B. is a writer and author of 39 unpublished books and three screenplays. A former athlete and would be superhero he still fights for truth, justice and the American Way. Though he may look like a grown man, don’t fool yourself he is still a boy at heart. When he is not engaged in Walter Mitty like fantasies he is a husband, father and friend and blogs at TheJackB. Hmm…obviously I have since moved from Random Thoughts over to this place, but that is ok. This page is a work in progress which is a good description for me. I’ll probably tweak this on a regular basis so feel free to keep checking back in because you never know what might show up. I am a prolific writer and update frequently so don’t forget to scroll down the page to see what nugget of wisdom you just might have missed. Here is a short selection of posts to get you started. A Father Describes Parenting A Father’s Burden How Sister’s Helped to Train A Father of “Daddy’s Girl” Inside the Blogger’s Studio- A Dream, Er Nightmare The GermoPhobe What I Dream About I am In Love Becoming a Dad Dad’s Most Important Job A Decade of Dad Grandpa Donuts Why Your Post Sucks and Everyone Hates Your Blog A Letter To My Children- Things That Matter A Letter To My Children-2011 Dad Balances Fear Versus Reality Q&A With Daddy Blogger JackB Save The Last Dance For Me- 75 Years of Marriage An Uncertain Certainty Four Generations & A Wedding The Best Thing My Father Ever Said To Me 1 Foolproof Way To Become a Better Writer The Story Of A House- The Final Days He Died A Hero Twenty-Five Links That Will Make You A Better Writer/Blogger Thanks for coming by, I hope you like it. If you want to reach me use the contact form or try talk-to-jacknow-at-gmail-dotcom You can also find more information by clicking About Me and reading my profile there. Also, I encourage you to sign up for my newsletter using the form on the top right hand side of the page.
      Josh says:

      @bryanrobertthompson:disqus Hi Bryan, welcome to the blog. Craig is a good guy, one of my favorite bloggers.
      Blogging can be great fun and it feel like a ton of work. The trick is trying to find that place where you enjoy it more than you dislike it.

      1. thompsonland – Thanks for stopping by. I'm a husband, father, musician, songwriter, and writer who sometimes writes witty things online. I am learning to navigate ADHD, Anxiety, and a host of other issues that makes me abnormal. Have a great day. You look great today.
        Bryan Thompson says:

        Wholeheartedly agree Josh. Thanks again!

  2. You definitely have to be willing to change. Your expectations and reason for blogging could also change. Flexibility and adaptability are good traits fora blogger.

    1. TheJackB – Someone complained that this page doesn’t tell you what to expect to find here in this blog so I aim to rectify this with the next line. I am a father who writes about life, parenting, business, politics and fiction. I don’t use an editorial calendar because I don’t map out what I am going to write that far in advance. The primary focus will be on things that relate to children and parenting. But the nifty thing about that is that encompasses a wide range of things. Sometimes I work with companies on their PR/Marketing efforts. If they provide products or services I will disclose it. Here is an incomplete list of companies that I am currently or have recently worked with: Nintendo, Philips Norelco, Subway, Frigidaire and Mattel. Want to know more about me, keep reading. If I wanted to provide a professional description it would looks similar to this: Jack has a Bachelor of Arts degree in journalism from California State University Northridge. He has been writing for print and web publications for more than twenty years, covering a wide range of topics including: business, technology, parenting, politics, education, sports and religion. That is far too serious so I prefer to use something like: The Jack B. is a writer and author of 39 unpublished books and three screenplays. A former athlete and would be superhero he still fights for truth, justice and the American Way. Though he may look like a grown man, don’t fool yourself he is still a boy at heart. When he is not engaged in Walter Mitty like fantasies he is a husband, father and friend and blogs at TheJackB. Hmm…obviously I have since moved from Random Thoughts over to this place, but that is ok. This page is a work in progress which is a good description for me. I’ll probably tweak this on a regular basis so feel free to keep checking back in because you never know what might show up. I am a prolific writer and update frequently so don’t forget to scroll down the page to see what nugget of wisdom you just might have missed. Here is a short selection of posts to get you started. A Father Describes Parenting A Father’s Burden How Sister’s Helped to Train A Father of “Daddy’s Girl” Inside the Blogger’s Studio- A Dream, Er Nightmare The GermoPhobe What I Dream About I am In Love Becoming a Dad Dad’s Most Important Job A Decade of Dad Grandpa Donuts Why Your Post Sucks and Everyone Hates Your Blog A Letter To My Children- Things That Matter A Letter To My Children-2011 Dad Balances Fear Versus Reality Q&A With Daddy Blogger JackB Save The Last Dance For Me- 75 Years of Marriage An Uncertain Certainty Four Generations & A Wedding The Best Thing My Father Ever Said To Me 1 Foolproof Way To Become a Better Writer The Story Of A House- The Final Days He Died A Hero Twenty-Five Links That Will Make You A Better Writer/Blogger Thanks for coming by, I hope you like it. If you want to reach me use the contact form or try talk-to-jacknow-at-gmail-dotcom You can also find more information by clicking About Me and reading my profile there. Also, I encourage you to sign up for my newsletter using the form on the top right hand side of the page.
      Josh says:

      @Lardavbern:disqus When you can go along and get along good things tend to happen.

  3. I honestly, couldn’t agree more. Just like in life, we have to be able to change with the times. My blog has undergone a couple of changes since the inception of it. Name changes, writing style changes, and a few theme changes. That is just on the surface. The bigger change is what blogging has done for me. That is find a new love of mine, writing, helped build my confidence, AND made me a better parent because of it.

    1. TheJackB – Someone complained that this page doesn’t tell you what to expect to find here in this blog so I aim to rectify this with the next line. I am a father who writes about life, parenting, business, politics and fiction. I don’t use an editorial calendar because I don’t map out what I am going to write that far in advance. The primary focus will be on things that relate to children and parenting. But the nifty thing about that is that encompasses a wide range of things. Sometimes I work with companies on their PR/Marketing efforts. If they provide products or services I will disclose it. Here is an incomplete list of companies that I am currently or have recently worked with: Nintendo, Philips Norelco, Subway, Frigidaire and Mattel. Want to know more about me, keep reading. If I wanted to provide a professional description it would looks similar to this: Jack has a Bachelor of Arts degree in journalism from California State University Northridge. He has been writing for print and web publications for more than twenty years, covering a wide range of topics including: business, technology, parenting, politics, education, sports and religion. That is far too serious so I prefer to use something like: The Jack B. is a writer and author of 39 unpublished books and three screenplays. A former athlete and would be superhero he still fights for truth, justice and the American Way. Though he may look like a grown man, don’t fool yourself he is still a boy at heart. When he is not engaged in Walter Mitty like fantasies he is a husband, father and friend and blogs at TheJackB. Hmm…obviously I have since moved from Random Thoughts over to this place, but that is ok. This page is a work in progress which is a good description for me. I’ll probably tweak this on a regular basis so feel free to keep checking back in because you never know what might show up. I am a prolific writer and update frequently so don’t forget to scroll down the page to see what nugget of wisdom you just might have missed. Here is a short selection of posts to get you started. A Father Describes Parenting A Father’s Burden How Sister’s Helped to Train A Father of “Daddy’s Girl” Inside the Blogger’s Studio- A Dream, Er Nightmare The GermoPhobe What I Dream About I am In Love Becoming a Dad Dad’s Most Important Job A Decade of Dad Grandpa Donuts Why Your Post Sucks and Everyone Hates Your Blog A Letter To My Children- Things That Matter A Letter To My Children-2011 Dad Balances Fear Versus Reality Q&A With Daddy Blogger JackB Save The Last Dance For Me- 75 Years of Marriage An Uncertain Certainty Four Generations & A Wedding The Best Thing My Father Ever Said To Me 1 Foolproof Way To Become a Better Writer The Story Of A House- The Final Days He Died A Hero Twenty-Five Links That Will Make You A Better Writer/Blogger Thanks for coming by, I hope you like it. If you want to reach me use the contact form or try talk-to-jacknow-at-gmail-dotcom You can also find more information by clicking About Me and reading my profile there. Also, I encourage you to sign up for my newsletter using the form on the top right hand side of the page.
      Josh says:

      @therookiedad:disqus I love your answer and not just because it mirrors my feelings. I think there is real joy in recognizing the benefits that come with the willingness to be flexible and to see how that has led to progress.

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