One Thing ‘Modern’ Marketing Misses

You don’t have to reinvent the wheel.

It is considered unkind to speak ill of the dead but when I think of my first boss it is sometimes hard not to grind my teeth and curse.

His people skills were so poor he wasn’t allowed to work in the office and had he not been one of the owners of the company there is a good chance he would have been fired. Not to mention he made Luddites look like Apple fan boys, computers in his mind were a complete waste of time.

However some decades later I can look back and give him credit for helping me remember there is no substitute for meeting someone in person.

Technology Doesn’t Replace The Power Of In Person

Technology is my friend and I am an avid user of many tools. Can’t count the number of times I have participated in meetings via conference call, Skype, Google Hangouts or used some other technological wonder to cross time and space because I couldn’t be there in person.

Mind you, I wouldn’t give up my phone, computer or any of these other tools because overall they have improved my professional and probably personal lives.

But they haven’t ever proven to be a legitimate substitute for shaking hands, grabbing coffee or having a meal with someone. That is because there are some things that never translate over the airwaves, or at least they haven’t in my experience.

And that in person experience is what modern marketing misses out on.

You Don’t Have To Reinvent The Wheel

There is no need to reinvent the wheel. The trick isn’t to work harder, but to work smarter.

So one of the questions I always ask when planning a campaign is if there is an effective and efficient way to include the human element.

Sometimes there simply isn’t and sometimes there really isn’t a need. Face-to-face isn’t all an all purpose solution for every business challenge or opportunity.

But given the direction some things are heading it is worth taking a second to think about it and ask if there is a way to integrate it because people respond better to the man/woman/child they see standing in front of them than the Facebook status update.

Think for a moment about your favorite author/actor/blogger and ask yourself if given the choice would you rather meet them in person one-on-one or read/watch an interview that asked all of the questions you would had you met them.

There Is No Right Or Wrong Answer

I don’t believe there is a single right or wrong answer to that question any more than I believe in there being only one way to be successful in social media.

Nor am I trying to straddle the fence here. I firmly believe that the human element makes the difference and that it can put a campaign over the top.

But since humans are not monolithic in our likes or dislikes it would be negligent not to mention it.

What do you think? Is face-to-face something that matters? Is it only applicable for sales or are there other areas?

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By Joshua Wilner

Hi, I am Josh Wilner and I am happy that you have decided to visit my corner of cyberspace. I am a writer/marketer/friend and family man. My professional background includes more than twenty years in working with businesses to help them do a better job of connecting with their existing and prospective customers. More specifically I have worked with companies of all sizes from the Fortune 500 to the new start up to help them build, develop and grow their social media and marketing plans. I love spending time with my family and friends. I enjoy music, reading, writing, playing sports and laughing.

4 comments

  1. Hi Josh
    In person works much better if possible.  Making eye contact and shaking someone’s hand can tell a lot about a person.  Warm, firm handshakes, a smile and all that contains valuable information about the other person.  Your eyes tell one thing and your handshake can tell a different story.  People might actually be more honest if they have to face someone as opposed to dealing with them on the internet.
    Mary 
    Latest blog post:  http://necessityofchange.com/change-2/demolition-of-a-landmark/

    1. TheJackB – Someone complained that this page doesn’t tell you what to expect to find here in this blog so I aim to rectify this with the next line. I am a father who writes about life, parenting, business, politics and fiction. I don’t use an editorial calendar because I don’t map out what I am going to write that far in advance. The primary focus will be on things that relate to children and parenting. But the nifty thing about that is that encompasses a wide range of things. Sometimes I work with companies on their PR/Marketing efforts. If they provide products or services I will disclose it. Here is an incomplete list of companies that I am currently or have recently worked with: Nintendo, Philips Norelco, Subway, Frigidaire and Mattel. Want to know more about me, keep reading. If I wanted to provide a professional description it would looks similar to this: Jack has a Bachelor of Arts degree in journalism from California State University Northridge. He has been writing for print and web publications for more than twenty years, covering a wide range of topics including: business, technology, parenting, politics, education, sports and religion. That is far too serious so I prefer to use something like: The Jack B. is a writer and author of 39 unpublished books and three screenplays. A former athlete and would be superhero he still fights for truth, justice and the American Way. Though he may look like a grown man, don’t fool yourself he is still a boy at heart. When he is not engaged in Walter Mitty like fantasies he is a husband, father and friend and blogs at TheJackB. Hmm…obviously I have since moved from Random Thoughts over to this place, but that is ok. This page is a work in progress which is a good description for me. I’ll probably tweak this on a regular basis so feel free to keep checking back in because you never know what might show up. I am a prolific writer and update frequently so don’t forget to scroll down the page to see what nugget of wisdom you just might have missed. Here is a short selection of posts to get you started. A Father Describes Parenting A Father’s Burden How Sister’s Helped to Train A Father of “Daddy’s Girl” Inside the Blogger’s Studio- A Dream, Er Nightmare The GermoPhobe What I Dream About I am In Love Becoming a Dad Dad’s Most Important Job A Decade of Dad Grandpa Donuts Why Your Post Sucks and Everyone Hates Your Blog A Letter To My Children- Things That Matter A Letter To My Children-2011 Dad Balances Fear Versus Reality Q&A With Daddy Blogger JackB Save The Last Dance For Me- 75 Years of Marriage An Uncertain Certainty Four Generations & A Wedding The Best Thing My Father Ever Said To Me 1 Foolproof Way To Become a Better Writer The Story Of A House- The Final Days He Died A Hero Twenty-Five Links That Will Make You A Better Writer/Blogger Thanks for coming by, I hope you like it. If you want to reach me use the contact form or try talk-to-jacknow-at-gmail-dotcom You can also find more information by clicking About Me and reading my profile there. Also, I encourage you to sign up for my newsletter using the form on the top right hand side of the page.
      Joshua Wilner/A Writer Writes says:

      Mary Stephenson Hi Mary,
      Don’t know why but it looks like your comment was accidentally flagged as spam. 
      Eye contact and a handshake do an awful lot for helping to build and develop a relationship between people.

  2. Jayme Soulati Blogging at Soulati-'TUDE! – Jayme Soulati is a hybrid PR professional blending digital, content and social media marketing with core PR and message mapping. She is an award-winning professional blogger and author of Writing with Verve on the Blogging Journey.
    Soulati says:

    Good one! I just had a great Skype with a few peeps and it’s so good to catch up IRL (as best we can). Saying which, isn’t it about time we do?

    1. TheJackB – Someone complained that this page doesn’t tell you what to expect to find here in this blog so I aim to rectify this with the next line. I am a father who writes about life, parenting, business, politics and fiction. I don’t use an editorial calendar because I don’t map out what I am going to write that far in advance. The primary focus will be on things that relate to children and parenting. But the nifty thing about that is that encompasses a wide range of things. Sometimes I work with companies on their PR/Marketing efforts. If they provide products or services I will disclose it. Here is an incomplete list of companies that I am currently or have recently worked with: Nintendo, Philips Norelco, Subway, Frigidaire and Mattel. Want to know more about me, keep reading. If I wanted to provide a professional description it would looks similar to this: Jack has a Bachelor of Arts degree in journalism from California State University Northridge. He has been writing for print and web publications for more than twenty years, covering a wide range of topics including: business, technology, parenting, politics, education, sports and religion. That is far too serious so I prefer to use something like: The Jack B. is a writer and author of 39 unpublished books and three screenplays. A former athlete and would be superhero he still fights for truth, justice and the American Way. Though he may look like a grown man, don’t fool yourself he is still a boy at heart. When he is not engaged in Walter Mitty like fantasies he is a husband, father and friend and blogs at TheJackB. Hmm…obviously I have since moved from Random Thoughts over to this place, but that is ok. This page is a work in progress which is a good description for me. I’ll probably tweak this on a regular basis so feel free to keep checking back in because you never know what might show up. I am a prolific writer and update frequently so don’t forget to scroll down the page to see what nugget of wisdom you just might have missed. Here is a short selection of posts to get you started. A Father Describes Parenting A Father’s Burden How Sister’s Helped to Train A Father of “Daddy’s Girl” Inside the Blogger’s Studio- A Dream, Er Nightmare The GermoPhobe What I Dream About I am In Love Becoming a Dad Dad’s Most Important Job A Decade of Dad Grandpa Donuts Why Your Post Sucks and Everyone Hates Your Blog A Letter To My Children- Things That Matter A Letter To My Children-2011 Dad Balances Fear Versus Reality Q&A With Daddy Blogger JackB Save The Last Dance For Me- 75 Years of Marriage An Uncertain Certainty Four Generations & A Wedding The Best Thing My Father Ever Said To Me 1 Foolproof Way To Become a Better Writer The Story Of A House- The Final Days He Died A Hero Twenty-Five Links That Will Make You A Better Writer/Blogger Thanks for coming by, I hope you like it. If you want to reach me use the contact form or try talk-to-jacknow-at-gmail-dotcom You can also find more information by clicking About Me and reading my profile there. Also, I encourage you to sign up for my newsletter using the form on the top right hand side of the page.
      Joshua Wilner/A Writer Writes says:

      Soulati | Hybrid PR I think you are correct.

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